1. My son, if you keep spending on a
woman and she never asked you if
you’re saving or investing, and she
keeps enjoying the attention, don’t
marry her.
2. My son, a woman could be a
good wife to you, some could be a
good mother to your children but if
you’ve found a woman like a mother
to you, your children and your
family, please don’t let her go.
3. My son, don’t confine the position
of your wife to the kitchen, where
did you get that from? Even in our
days, we had farm-lands where they
worked every morning . . . that was
our office.
4. My son, if I tell you that you’re
the head of the house, don’t look at
your pocket; look if you will see a
smile on your wife’s face.
5. My son, if you want to have a
long life, let your wife be in- charge
of your salary, it will be difficult for
her to spend it when she’s aware of
the home needs and bills to pay but
if it’s in your care, she will keep you
asking even when all has been spent.
6. My son, don’t ever beat your
woman, the pain in her body is
nothing to be compared to the wound
on her heart and that means you
may be in trouble living with a
wounded woman.
7. My son, now that you’re married,
if you live a bachelor kind of life
with your wife, you will soon be
single again.
8. My son, in our days, we had
many wives and many children
because of our large farm- lands
and many harvests, there are hardly
any land for farming anymore, so
embrace your woman closely.
9. My son, under the cocoa tree that
I did meet your mother could be
your eateries and restaurants of
nowadays, but remember, the closet
thing we did there was to embrace
each other.
10. My son, don’t be carried away
when you start making more money,
instead of
spending on those tiny legs that
never knew how hard you worked to
get it, spend it on that woman that
stood by you all along.
11. My son, when I threw little stones
or whistled at the window of your
mother
father’s house, to call her out, it was
not for sex, it was because I missed
her so much.
12. My son, remember, when you say
your wife has changed, there could
be something you’ve stopped doing
too.
13. My son, your mother rode the
bicycle with me before I bought that
tortoise car
outside there, any woman that won’t
endure with you in your little
beginning should not enjoy your
riches.
14. My son, don’t compare your wife
to any woman, there are ways she’s
enduring you too and has she ever
compared you to any man?
15. My son, there is this thing you
people call feminism, well, if a
woman claim to have equal right
with you in the house,
divide all the bills into two equal
parts, take one part and ask her to
start paying the other part.
16. My son, I met your mother a
virgin and I took more yams to her
father, if you don’t meet your wife a
virgin, don’t blame
her, what I didn’t tell you is that
our women had prestige.
17. My son, I didn’t send your
sisters to school because I was
foolish like many to think a female
child won’t extend my
family name, please don’t make that
mistake, the kind of female achievers
I see nowadays has made the male-
gender an ordinary tag.
18. My son, your mother have once
locked up the cloth I was wearing
and almost tore it because she was
angry, I did not raise my hand to
beat her because of a day like this,
so that I can be proud to tell you
that I never for once beat your
mother.
19. My son, in our days, our women
had more of natural beauty, though I
wouldn’t lie to you, some had minor
painting of their appellation mostly
on their arms, the ones you people
now call tattoo, but don’t forget that
they didn’t expose any part of their
body like your women of nowadays.
20. My son, your mother and I are
not interested in what happens in
your marriage, try to handle issues
without always coming to us.
21. My son, remember I bought your
mother’s first sewing machine for
her, help your wife achieve her
dreams just as you’re pursuing
yours.
22. My son, don’t stop taking care of
me and your mother, so that your
children will take care of you too.
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| Article Name | WORDS FROM A FATHER
TO A SON ABOUT
MARRIAGE |
| Description |
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| Author Name | Oba BadGbedu |
| Published On | 5/20/2016 |
| Post Category |
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