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You can title this my story 'he dumps me and after many years wants me back', or 'I am stupid to give my own in marriage,' or Madness or Love? Please just feel free to use any title for this my story.
Now to my story...
INTRODUCTION:
My name is Joy. I am a graduate, once married and a mother of two cute sons.
HOW I MET MY HUSBAND:
I met my husband two months after my NYSC.
I was posted to serve in Osun State. And four days after my POP, I got a call from one of my uncles who's staying in Lagos, telling me that he'd like me to be in charge of one of his businesses. And my agreement with him then was that I will be working for him until I get a better job. So I only stayed two weeks in my PPA after my POP before I went back to stay two extra weeks with my family in Aba. When I finally started working for my uncle, within the space of three weeks, I got a better job offer and thanks to God, my uncle didn't stop me from accepting it. A cousin of mine that was staying in Port Harcourt was called to replace me.
Exactly one week in my new working place, I met my husband Ken. He was everything I could think of in a man. He was caring. He had no fault. In fact Queen, this guy was an angel in disguise. I fell madly in love with him without reasoning any negative side. And within the space of three months, he proposed. That day was the luckiest day of my life. I was unable to sleep for three straight days and whenever I remembered I was going to spend the rest of my life with him, I saw myself having this unspeakable joy flowing inside of me.
SEX LIFE BEFORE MARRIAGE:
Queen, I won't lie to you. I only had sex with him just twice before our wedding. Yes, he's good in bed. However, after he proposed, we promised to zip-up until after our wedding ceremonies. And that will did.
OUR WEDDING:
The only challenge I had with Ken was tribe. I am Igbo and he's a Yoruba. His mother especially was the major person against the marriage plan although she was unable to stop it, but I never knew God was actually using her to warn me about the untold future. I never knew God was indirectly telling me to back-off from the whole wedding/marriage ISH.
Then two weeks to my TM, Ken called me and told me that once we are married, I will quit my job. I thought he was joking because he never said it with seriousness. But according to him, he can't be married to a woman who's not a house wife. Wish I knew he was serious.
HOW MY LIFE CHANGED:
I married Ken eight months after meeting him. And he never raised the issue of me quitting my job. A month and five days into my marriage, I discovered I was pregnant. Oh, how happy I was...! When my pregnancy was just four months, my husband so gingered me to quit my job and just to obey and please him, I quit my job that was paying me more than enough I have ever imagined.
I later gave birth to my cute son Gabriel. And as a stay-at-home mum, I was depending on my husband for almost everything. then I started noticing a change in his behaviour. He will scream and shout at me for any slightest provocation.
During my son's third birthday, I was beaten blue, pink, red and black until I passed out simply because of s*x. I was baking my son's birthday cake when he ordered for the s*x. I pleaded with him to please give me a little time to keep some things in order so that we won't be distracted when doing the do. Thinking he had accepted, I went back to the kitchen to keep the place in order, about to check the cake I was baking, the next thing I heard at my back was a sound slap. And with shock, I quickly turn but that didn't stop what I got that day. I was beaten up like a slave in front of my son. There was no one to save me because it was just him, my son and I at home. After hitting me, he forcefully had his way on me in front of my crying son. Seeing that my son was witnessing his father's bad behaviour, I lost my mind and passed out. I woke up in the hospital. I wished I would've divorced him after I recovered. I gave him a second chance and that was the mistake I made.
Ken now developed the habit of beating me at least three to four times every month and not just beating, but also raping me in front of my son. My self worth was reduced to nothing. I attempted suicide and tried to poison him but none worked.
One day, my son's class teacher Mrs Charity and head teacher Mrs Falade, called me and told me how my now 5-years-old son was forcing himself on his female classmate. I almost died that moment. I tried to deny it and to protect my son but I knew I won't be doing him any good. Unable to control myself, I started crying. I opened up to them and told them the whole truth about my marriage. They in return told me that for the well-being of my son, I should leave that dead marriage. And after many talks from them, I decided to leave the marriage.
On the day I made up my mind to leave the marriage, I noticed that my husband was packing all our properties into an awaiting van. I asked him why he was doing that, he told me that he had gotten himself another woman, who is hard working and not as lazy as I. He also said he was done with the marriage and that Gabriel our son was no longer his son from that moment. That he's taking everything he brought into the house to his new house. That I should find my way and life. He boldly told me that I was too stupid to quit my job for him. That now he won't be part my life and that of my son, he can't wait to see us dying of hunger and rejections. Remembering that the house rent will expire in three weeks time, and that there's no way I can renew it without his help, I angrily slapped him and this brought out the most dangerous demon in him. Ken took me into our bedroom, locked the door, beat me and despite my shout, the van driver did not come out to save me. I was beaten with everything you can think of. And then I was raped for more than one hour thirty minutes. After everything, he spat inside me three times, slapped it three times and looked into my face and said no man will ever enjoy s*x with me. Then he left.
All this while, I never told my people what was happening but I was constantly reporting him to his people who never believed me and to them, a married man has every right to do anything he wants with his woman's body. I also reported his last behvaiour to his family members and I was shamed and disgraced because they as usual, thought I was lying. Their son told them he only left me because he caught me cheating.
When I took my bad state to my uncle, the one that once gave me one of his businesses to handle, he was angry. He located my husband, arrested him but we decided to drop the case and allow God to fight for me. My family members were not happy with me for hiding everything from them. I cut off all ties with ken and his family after my family returned my bribe price to them. One of my paternal uncles that is staying in Ghana, decided to invite me. When I got to Ghana, I discovered I was two months pregnant. I wanted to abort it, but my family members told me not to harm the innocent baby. I later gave birth to another son in Ghana. And to God be the glory, my family were supportive. I stayed at home two years without working before one of aunts that's staying in Port Harcourt, the mother of that my cousin that replaced me when I left my uncles business, called that I should return back to Nigeria that she had gotten a job for me in PH. On getting to Nigeria, I started my new job. My life and story changed overnight. It was there I met John. Due to what I saw in my first marriage, I refused accepting him. But my family and his mum pleaded I should give him a trial. Which I have done.
WHY MY STORY:
My TM with John is at the end of this month and since two weeks now, my ex husband has been calling and begging that I should please forgive him. According to him that he was under a spell. He said the name of his supposed second wife is Sandra. And from the day he met Sandra, his life changed. And they are yet to conceive. Queen, he has been begging me to call off my wedding with John. Now, I am confused. Mind you, John and I have decided to relocate to Portugal with the boys. But I don't want my boys to grow up without their father, I don't want to have kids for different men and at the same time, I don't want to hurt John. Ken is not even after my sons. He said he still loves me and wants me back. And I don't know if I am a fool or are my village people on my case? My Traditional Marriage is at the end of this month, please tell me what to do. I am sending this to you because I am confused. Should I go ahead with my marriage with John?
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Post Summary
You can title this my story 'he dumps me and after many years wants me back', or 'I am stupid to give my own in marriage,' or Madness or Love? Please just feel free to use any title for this my story.
Now to my story...
INTRODUCTION:
My name is Joy. I am a graduate, once married and a mother of two cute sons.
HOW I MET MY HUSBAND:
I met my husband two months after my NYSC.
I was posted to serve in Osun State. And four days after my POP, I got a call from one of my uncles who's staying in Lagos, telling me that he'd like me to be in charge of one of his businesses. And my agreement with him then was that I will be working for him until I get a better job. So I only stayed two weeks in my PPA after my POP before I went back to stay two extra weeks with my family in Aba. When I finally started working for my uncle, within the space of three weeks, I got a better job offer and thanks to God, my uncle didn't stop me from accepting it. A cousin of mine that was staying in Port Harcourt was called to replace me.
Exactly one week in my new working place, I met my husband Ken. He was everything I could think of in a man. He was caring. He had no fault. In fact Queen, this guy was an angel in disguise. I fell madly in love with him without reasoning any negative side. And within the space of three months, he proposed. That day was the luckiest day of my life. I was unable to sleep for three straight days and whenever I remembered I was going to spend the rest of my life with him, I saw myself having this unspeakable joy flowing inside of me.
SEX LIFE BEFORE MARRIAGE:
Queen, I won't lie to you. I only had sex with him just twice before our wedding. Yes, he's good in bed. However, after he proposed, we promised to zip-up until after our wedding ceremonies. And that will did.
OUR WEDDING:
The only challenge I had with Ken was tribe. I am Igbo and he's a Yoruba. His mother especially was the major person against the marriage plan although she was unable to stop it, but I never knew God was actually using her to warn me about the untold future. I never knew God was indirectly telling me to back-off from the whole wedding/marriage ISH.
Then two weeks to my TM, Ken called me and told me that once we are married, I will quit my job. I thought he was joking because he never said it with seriousness. But according to him, he can't be married to a woman who's not a house wife. Wish I knew he was serious.
HOW MY LIFE CHANGED:
I married Ken eight months after meeting him. And he never raised the issue of me quitting my job. A month and five days into my marriage, I discovered I was pregnant. Oh, how happy I was...! When my pregnancy was just four months, my husband so gingered me to quit my job and just to obey and please him, I quit my job that was paying me more than enough I have ever imagined.
I later gave birth to my cute son Gabriel. And as a stay-at-home mum, I was depending on my husband for almost everything. then I started noticing a change in his behaviour. He will scream and shout at me for any slightest provocation.
During my son's third birthday, I was beaten blue, pink, red and black until I passed out simply because of s*x. I was baking my son's birthday cake when he ordered for the s*x. I pleaded with him to please give me a little time to keep some things in order so that we won't be distracted when doing the do. Thinking he had accepted, I went back to the kitchen to keep the place in order, about to check the cake I was baking, the next thing I heard at my back was a sound slap. And with shock, I quickly turn but that didn't stop what I got that day. I was beaten up like a slave in front of my son. There was no one to save me because it was just him, my son and I at home. After hitting me, he forcefully had his way on me in front of my crying son. Seeing that my son was witnessing his father's bad behaviour, I lost my mind and passed out. I woke up in the hospital. I wished I would've divorced him after I recovered. I gave him a second chance and that was the mistake I made.
Ken now developed the habit of beating me at least three to four times every month and not just beating, but also raping me in front of my son. My self worth was reduced to nothing. I attempted suicide and tried to poison him but none worked.
One day, my son's class teacher Mrs Charity and head teacher Mrs Falade, called me and told me how my now 5-years-old son was forcing himself on his female classmate. I almost died that moment. I tried to deny it and to protect my son but I knew I won't be doing him any good. Unable to control myself, I started crying. I opened up to them and told them the whole truth about my marriage. They in return told me that for the well-being of my son, I should leave that dead marriage. And after many talks from them, I decided to leave the marriage.
On the day I made up my mind to leave the marriage, I noticed that my husband was packing all our properties into an awaiting van. I asked him why he was doing that, he told me that he had gotten himself another woman, who is hard working and not as lazy as I. He also said he was done with the marriage and that Gabriel our son was no longer his son from that moment. That he's taking everything he brought into the house to his new house. That I should find my way and life. He boldly told me that I was too stupid to quit my job for him. That now he won't be part my life and that of my son, he can't wait to see us dying of hunger and rejections. Remembering that the house rent will expire in three weeks time, and that there's no way I can renew it without his help, I angrily slapped him and this brought out the most dangerous demon in him. Ken took me into our bedroom, locked the door, beat me and despite my shout, the van driver did not come out to save me. I was beaten with everything you can think of. And then I was raped for more than one hour thirty minutes. After everything, he spat inside me three times, slapped it three times and looked into my face and said no man will ever enjoy s*x with me. Then he left.
All this while, I never told my people what was happening but I was constantly reporting him to his people who never believed me and to them, a married man has every right to do anything he wants with his woman's body. I also reported his last behvaiour to his family members and I was shamed and disgraced because they as usual, thought I was lying. Their son told them he only left me because he caught me cheating.
When I took my bad state to my uncle, the one that once gave me one of his businesses to handle, he was angry. He located my husband, arrested him but we decided to drop the case and allow God to fight for me. My family members were not happy with me for hiding everything from them. I cut off all ties with ken and his family after my family returned my bribe price to them. One of my paternal uncles that is staying in Ghana, decided to invite me. When I got to Ghana, I discovered I was two months pregnant. I wanted to abort it, but my family members told me not to harm the innocent baby. I later gave birth to another son in Ghana. And to God be the glory, my family were supportive. I stayed at home two years without working before one of aunts that's staying in Port Harcourt, the mother of that my cousin that replaced me when I left my uncles business, called that I should return back to Nigeria that she had gotten a job for me in PH. On getting to Nigeria, I started my new job. My life and story changed overnight. It was there I met John. Due to what I saw in my first marriage, I refused accepting him. But my family and his mum pleaded I should give him a trial. Which I have done.
WHY MY STORY:
My TM with John is at the end of this month and since two weeks now, my ex husband has been calling and begging that I should please forgive him. According to him that he was under a spell. He said the name of his supposed second wife is Sandra. And from the day he met Sandra, his life changed. And they are yet to conceive. Queen, he has been begging me to call off my wedding with John. Now, I am confused. Mind you, John and I have decided to relocate to Portugal with the boys. But I don't want my boys to grow up without their father, I don't want to have kids for different men and at the same time, I don't want to hurt John. Ken is not even after my sons. He said he still loves me and wants me back. And I don't know if I am a fool or are my village people on my case? My Traditional Marriage is at the end of this month, please tell me what to do. I am sending this to you because I am confused. Should I go ahead with my marriage with John?
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| Published On | 9/19/2018 |
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